Stop Dating. Start “Practicing!”

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If you’re a single person, and want to be in a relationship again, you will actually have to “get out there” and meet people!

How do you feel about dating? It can be hard, a struggle, scary and panic-attack-provoking. Or, it can be simple, easy-breezy and fun.

The key to making it easy and taking all the stress out is this… STOP DATING!

Yes, don’t date… PRACTICE!

Can you feel the difference? I figured this out years ago. It makes so much sense to me. Why put all that heavy energy on spending time with someone new, “dating” when you can just “practice” being with them.

Practice is…

  • spending time with someone new
  • listening to new stories
  • looking at a new body
  • thinking about this person
  • talking and sharing
  • experiencing new ideas, thoughts, beliefs and activities
  • learning something new
  • learning more about yourself, your preferences “likes and dislikes”
  • expanding your mind and heart
  • laughing
  • just being with someone
  • just breathing with another “other” in life, very helpful

It’s all about practicing. Much lighter feel to that, eh?

I look forward to hearing how your next “practice” goes! Enjoy!

©Kim Wolinski, MSW “Dr. DeClutter” Stress, Change and Organizational Skills Expert

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