
I just presented a 90-minute teleseminar, “When Life Gives You Lemons, Put ‘em In Your Bra! How to Lift and Separate the Challenges of Change.”Over 700 people registered. Thank you to my host-ess, Dr. Meggin McIntosh who is awesome! Thanks Meggin!
We all have ”Lemons” drop into our lives, everywhere and all the time. The ability to overlook and overcome their sometimes stressful and destructive activity in our lives takes a lot of conscious effort.
Getting from the old normal – ”the way it was” – to the “new normal,” the way it’s now going to be can be the hardest of all. New normals don’t come wrapped in a bow all the time, and usually we have to let go of a lot to have them become familiar to us. If we can be mentally flexible enough to bend and reform with it, we’ll get there, and we will get all the benefits from the journey.
My friend Stephanie and her family from Ft. Collins, CO has been learning this one in big giant steps the past few months. Her 19 year old daughter Rachel was in a car accident and sustained head injury. She’s now been out of Craig Rehabilitation Hospital for a few weeks and doing really well.
Today, the Care Pages message (what a wonderful healthcare online system to keep family and friends in the loop) from Stephanie and her husband Steve, both eloquent and funny writer, was inspiring as always.
In order to get settled into your “new normal”, make sure to keep lots of good family and friends around! Ask for help. Let people help you. Pay for help! It’s okay. Here is their most recent chapter in Rachel’s healing story.
It is great for all of us to be home! As Julia said, “We can return to our New Normal.” On Saturday, Aunt Brenda and Mer, took Rachel on a short field trip to see Mer’s horse, Angel, at the Barn. It was a short but very fun trip. Rachel also introduced “Doc” (another horse) to Aunt Brenda. A nice trip out of the house!
It is so good to be home! Rachel has continued her recovery Journey while we were in Montana with Aunt Brenda and the therapists who are working with her at our home. Aunt Leslie took her to Denver to get her brace for her right leg. She wears it 3-4 hours a day and anytime we leave the house. It seems to do exactly what the PTs hoped. She is getting much stronger and her gate is getting smoother every day. She can walk a long block the brace and without getting too tired. As the Louise, her PT, reminded us . . . first strength, then stability and finally endurance.
Rachel’s core is amazingly strong as she continues to do exercises with the fitness ball, pulleys, our kitchen counter (parallel bar replacement)and therabands twice a day. The regimen takes about 1-2 hours to complete. Rachel is completely cleared to do stairs holding on with one hand but does not need to have us walk beside or in back of her…we just need to know she is heading up or down.
Rachel’s Speech Therapist, Nancy is working with her to get word recognition, intonation, speed and fluency…I am reminded that in early-September Rachel was just starting to say words and starting to form small phrases. She read from one of her Art History books to Aunt Brenda this weekend. Working on memory, retention and cognitive skills are a long process.
Yesterday, Rachel starting using the Wii Fit the Kathy and Mike Slavick have loaned us. It is fun and therapeutic. Her favorite thing is to do the Penguin and Fish Balancing game. Louise hopes to incorporate the Wii into her daily activities. Rachel was introduced to it at Craig and we really wanted to keep using it. Thanks to the Slavicks we can!!!!
Rachel is now eating entirely with her right hand! Some of her favorite things to eat are more of a challenge than she thought…but worth the extra work…especially chips and salsa. She takes time to eat, and the rest of us are learning to follow her pace which is much healthier!!! We want to say “thank you” to the Lieurance and Payton families for the good food for Rachel and Brenda while we were in Montana.
This morning when Steph asked Rachel to write a note on a box. Pere proudly announced this morning that Rachel now has better handwriting than he has. This is not that much of accomplishment given his penmanship skills, but it made Rachel smile. Rachel can now write with her right hand…just a few words at a time.
Take care and thanks for all the warm thoughts and prayers for our family. Sweet dreams!
Love,
Stephanie, Rachel, Julia and Steve
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